No problem here with "keeping it clean" as a "price" for finding a wrestling mate. I can most likely find sex with someone on line within a few minutes of Internetting; whereas, sometimes it takes weeks, or even months, for a guy my age to find a willing wrestling partner. Glad there are straight and asexual guys on this site, as I don't have to look "sexually stimulating" to them for a match up – unlike the case in trying to meet many gays.
Man, I wish I lived a lot closer to u...I find u hot, handsome and really my kind of dude. Why do all the hot guys live so far away? I personally am really attracted. I'd love to fight another guy over u...wanna watch? Joe
And that's akin to my asking why do all the guys who have the hots to wrestle me live so far away. I wonder if an avoidance for locals is a "ho-hum I can have him anytime, whereas the out-of-town guy is a once in a year, or lifetime chance" syndrome? A desire for "the exotic" in its literal definition? Regardless, ideally are guys I can have repeated contact with; but there's no way I would turn down a well intentioned guy for wrestling, whether he be from a local two-minutes walking distance, or a short Metro ride away, or from Australia or Tristan da Cunha.
PS. In the past 14 months, I have found and met only three guys on the two big predominantly-gay fight sites, locally interested in wrestling a guy my age. Two of the three are not gay. Reckon, that could be construed as sad commentary on my gay "brothers" in the local area.
Gay, "straight," bisexual, asexual, anything else, as long as yur a male of legal age, I'll wrestle you. My hands stay outside your Speedo or whatever unless you say otherwise or grab the hand and put it inside.
It has been hard being older and being gay to gain acceptance in the wrestling/jiujitsu world. I spar with men and women and we are concerned with wrestling or jiujitsu improvement and would not dare screw things up to get some cheap sexual thrills.Sex is great and enjoyable but lets keep it in the bedroom, not the wrestling room. Otherwise it just gets harder for gays to be trusted in gyms and tournaments.
nothing wrong with keeping it clean...you are absolutely right...give me a few moments alone with you and I'll show u what I had in mine....but seriously, I agree...for some it's just wrestling....for others it's all foreplay. Good reminder, thanks Joe
Spruceman (55 )
2/24/2017 12:47 PMNo problem here with "keeping it clean" as a "price" for finding a wrestling mate. I can most likely find sex with someone on line within a few minutes of Internetting; whereas, sometimes it takes weeks, or even months, for a guy my age to find a willing wrestling partner. Glad there are straight and asexual guys on this site, as I don't have to look "sexually stimulating" to them for a match up – unlike the case in trying to meet many gays.
Wrestlesweat0077 (5)
2/28/2017 10:28 PM(In reply to this)
Man, I wish I lived a lot closer to u...I find u hot, handsome and really my kind of dude. Why do all the hot guys live so far away? I personally am really attracted. I'd love to fight another guy over u...wanna watch? Joe
Spruceman (55 )
2/28/2017 10:36 PM(In reply to this)
And that's akin to my asking why do all the guys who have the hots to wrestle me live so far away. I wonder if an avoidance for locals is a "ho-hum I can have him anytime, whereas the out-of-town guy is a once in a year, or lifetime chance" syndrome? A desire for "the exotic" in its literal definition? Regardless, ideally are guys I can have repeated contact with; but there's no way I would turn down a well intentioned guy for wrestling, whether he be from a local two-minutes walking distance, or a short Metro ride away, or from Australia or Tristan da Cunha.
Spruceman (55 )
2/27/2017 2:28 PM(In reply to this)
PS. In the past 14 months, I have found and met only three guys on the two big predominantly-gay fight sites, locally interested in wrestling a guy my age. Two of the three are not gay. Reckon, that could be construed as sad commentary on my gay "brothers" in the local area.
reneesouis (6)
2/28/2017 9:50 PM(In reply to this)
I'm straight but would certainly like to wrestle you
Spruceman (55 )
2/28/2017 10:05 PM(In reply to this)
Gay, "straight," bisexual, asexual, anything else, as long as yur a male of legal age, I'll wrestle you. My hands stay outside your Speedo or whatever unless you say otherwise or grab the hand and put it inside.
BJJWrestlerLasVegas (14)
2/23/2017 7:06 PMIt has been hard being older and being gay to gain acceptance in the wrestling/jiujitsu world. I spar with men and women and we are concerned with wrestling or jiujitsu improvement and would not dare screw things up to get some cheap sexual thrills.Sex is great and enjoyable but lets keep it in the bedroom, not the wrestling room. Otherwise it just gets harder for gays to be trusted in gyms and tournaments.
Wrestlesweat0077 (5)
2/23/2017 7:01 PMnothing wrong with keeping it clean...you are absolutely right...give me a few moments alone with you and I'll show u what I had in mine....but seriously, I agree...for some it's just wrestling....for others it's all foreplay. Good reminder, thanks Joe
Wrestlesweat0077 (5)
2/23/2017 6:47 PMThis is what wrestling is about...Guys having fun and testing their strength...only thing missing is the erotic element...;)
BJJWrestlerLasVegas (14)
2/23/2017 6:59 PM(In reply to this)
What is wrong with keeping it clean?
BJJWrestlerLasVegas (14)
2/22/2017 6:21 PM