I wrestled in high school and trained Brazilian jiu jitsu a few years, until a knee injury made me slow down. When you go through puberty on the wrestling team, erotic wrestling fantasies just get hard wired, so in my younger days I was into competitive grappling, frottage, extended pins, submissions, cock grinding and the stink and sweat of men. More recently, I had long haul Covid for two years, and at my age you just lose a step, but my fantasies are alive and well. I am back in the gym working hard to get my fitness level, muscularity and functionality back enough to enjoy some fun as soon as possible. I am a good natured, helping professional and academic who loves meeting men from all walks of life and ethnicities. I am looking for friendship first and foremost, and this is my first step towards seeing how grappling fits into my life as an older man and to see what's out there.

I have enjoyed creative writing my whole life. So, during the isolation of Covid I discovered “cyber wrestling” through this site on Chatfighters, though I prefer long form, descriptive, reality based story telling, as opposed to sit down/jerk off one shot cyber. Increasingly I have less time for this pursuit, but thought I would put it out there.