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Martial Arts
Those of you who know me know that I not only wrestle but have also been taking martial arts for the last couple years. The martial art I have been taking is a form of Russian self-defense called "Sytema". It does involve some aspects of wrestling and can very much be a good way to get your desire to "fight" out, though all too often, the drills can involve little or no wrestling-type of contact. So, it could be hit-or-miss in that aspect.
Well, recently I felt the need to move on from Systema. I still loved the concept and several of the guys who attended the class, but because of the way the class was being managed, I decided it would be best to see what else was out there. So I am writing this to those of you who may have been considering a martial arts class and let you know what I found in my search. And for those of you who merely view wrestling as foreplay, this blog may not be for you.
The first type of school I checked out was a Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu (BJJ) about 10 minutes from my house. The class was regimented with lining up by rank and bowing and rituals regarding folding your belt similar to what they would do at my son's karate class all those years I had to drive him there. The warm-ups were do-able and the students were very welcoming. But when the drills began, I was told to go drill with the only young girl there, everyone else was guys from their 20's to 40's. I was also made to stay with her while everyone else changed partners. To say I felt uncomfortable with this is an understatement. Had the instructor let me partner up with one of the guys there, I probably would have signed up that night, but I politely informed him that I would "let him know" if I was coming back.
I also checked out another BJJ class and signed up for a free class. It too was somewhat regimented, though because of the size it was more "uniform" than ritualized. I knew I was in trouble when the instructor told us to warm up by running! Running is something I absolutely HATE doing. They after running he screamed to start tumbling, and because I had been running the tumbling brought on a muscle spasm. I had to tell him that I should probably just sit and watch. One lesson to learn, avoid schools where the "warm-ups" completely take everything out of you. The manager told me that I didn't need to do all the warmups and I could go at my own pace. But I didn't like the thought of sticking out like that. So I continued looking.
I also just observed a self defense class that sounded interesting. So I showed up and observed the class. There was a female teacher teaching six students, 3 guys, 3 gals, all looked like they were under the age of 25. I knew immediately this wasn't for me.
My next inquiry was with a Wing Chun class. I wasn't sure what to expect but the teacher was very laid back and looked like a big tough guy. So that alone had me interested. But I soon learned Wing Chun is done entirely on your feet. It's all about swinging your arms. I liked the instructor and didn't mind the class, but I knew this wasn't what I wanted to commit to. Moving on....
Next I tried a Krav Maga class, which is an Israeli form of self defense. I purchased one of those 3 class deals for 19.99. I must admit, I was impressed. The warmups were intense, but doable. The self defense techniques were hit or miss for me, but was willing to inquire further. But what got me backing away from this place after the 3 classes were over was their method of nickel-and-diming you with their fees and purchasing their equipment. I told them I was hoping to try another BJJ class before I made my final decision.
This brings me to where I finally did sign up. I found a BJJ studio that has some warmups but nothing intense. The class was about 15 minutes from my work and had some early morning classes that I could take before work. Sweet! But the class itself is awesome! The instructor is very laid back and doesn't care about lineups or bowing or anything like that. Gi's are encouraged, but you can go buy whatever BJJ gi you want. I bought mine on Amazon for $40. And I tell you, it's mostly guys in the class. They are very friendly and very knowledgeable, and best of all THEY ARE A LOT OF FUN TO ROLL WITH in the drills. In the evening classes they even have "roll time" where you just grapple with different partners. How sweet is that? Also the monthly fee is somewhat lower than most of the other schools I looked at either on-line or in person. I knew after the first class that this one was what I was looking for.
So in summary, I strongly recommend BJJ as a martial art for those who can't wrestle too often because of lack of wrestlers in your area. For me it's a way to keep the grappling going without getting into too much trouble. I'm still wrestling the guys here, but keeping it at the guys I know will give me a good sweaty workout or that I am very comfortable with. When they can't rumble, then it's off to BJJ! Peace out everyone, and God bless!
Ironbull (96)
4/30/2019 7:24 PMI think the warm ups should push you. You are, after all, taking your body to a new place so that the techniques can be backed up by the stamina you need for even short bursts of competitive fighting. When I started boxing the warm ups would have me nearly puking but now they don't. Skipping was exhausting, humiliating, painful, frustrating and I was useless at it but now I can do around 50 before I whack myself in the shins or the back of the head. If the classes don;t shake you to the core, the first serious fight you have probably will and that'll be far more painful. that's just my take. Enjoy the training.
RhodyRaybo (100)
4/30/2019 7:34 PM(In reply to this)
Thanks for the input. I appreciate you reading and commenting. Boxing is a good thing to learn as well, but around here, most of the boxing classes were aimed at women.
Ironbull (96)
4/30/2019 7:36 PM(In reply to this)
That surprises me, but women are into boxing too so it's not unusual to see a number of women doing it and often excelling. I think the way women can drive power from the hips stands them in very good stead.
RhodyRaybo (100)
4/30/2019 7:44 PM(In reply to this)
I found that around here, that if a guy wants a boxing class that is mostly guys or mixed, Muai Thai (spelling?) is an available option. It's good boxing technique with an Asian twist. But it too, is very intense and varies from location to location.
Ironbull (96)
4/30/2019 7:47 PM(In reply to this)
Just remember, everyone else is just as apprehensive. A good training environment puts you all together and you help each other, even when you're trying to knock the crap out of each other or rip his arms off.
Jedi (38)
4/30/2019 10:09 PMA wonderful post! Your story shows the importance of checking things out, and not generalizing an experience with a teacher to the art as a whole. Even at one particular school, there may be several classes with different teachers; each will have their own vibe. Learning what one can from each is important long term, but at the start, just getting settled, feeling comfortable and welcome enough to return is the main goal. I'm glad you kept searching and found something that fits!
RhodyRaybo (100)
4/30/2019 10:12 PM(In reply to this)
Thank you so much for the encouragement. I do like this school. I just got a message from the instructor telling me I need to slow down. I asked him if he could be more specific. this morning he told me he was afraid I might hurt somebody! LOL.
pecs44 (58 )
5/01/2019 3:54 AM(In reply to this)
No! Really? ;)
Dogfighter5 (125 )
5/01/2019 7:13 PMI went to the school he speaks about above and they are well known for that warm up. I am in pretty good shape and barely got through it on the first day. I do agree with ironbull the warm up was brutal but made me stronger each time I did it. FYI almost nobody is able to get through the warm up the first few weeks many young guys are puking in the parking lot. I give you a lot of credit for even attempting it Ray. The warm up used to give me anxiety before heading into class but I must say its what I miss the most.
Ironbull (96)
5/01/2019 7:15 PMCredit to anyone willing to make their body into something more. The price is high. What you get is worth it and then some.