WORLD OF RAWR

I've never considered myself a dominant type by any means, but I am also not submissive.

It is a weird middle ground to be in. Especially when I'm asked about things like being a jobber or not. I suppose i am, but then I have moments where I am not. Does that mean I'm a heel? No, but I'm not in jobber mode, either.

Like many other areas of my life, there is the constant concept of cusp or being between and not solidly planted in one place or another.

For instance, I have recently acquired a pet. I enjoy him a lot. That said, I am not demanding or especially aggressive toward my pet; I don't believe that is how control and authority work. At the same time, even though I am gentle with my pet and kind, I am not the pet and my pet is not the master.

I think dominance works like that. Some things require action to establish, but in many ways, dominance can be made clear long before any action is taken.