Having had a few meets the last few months I must say that I am now enjoying the grappling side a lot more than the fighting side.

The aggressive side and rough side are still there and still very much controlled. I’m happy to discuss this option if it’s something you wish to try or experience.

I used to want to win all the time, but it’s now evident that having a fun match and learning More from an opponent or teaching my opponent a move or some technique is far more fun than winning. But don’t be fooled, I am extremely competitive and would much prefer to win than lose. But that’s just my nature and won’t spoil a match if I met someone stronger or more skilled than me.

I am very respectful and considerate of my opponents and expect the same. I’m not on this site to prove anything to anyone.

If we use fists/elbows/knees please be as controlled as I am. If/when I strike your body it will be on certain areas. It’s easy to throw punches and kicks but it’s difficult to control where they land. If I suffer any injury it will have a massive impact on my day to day life. I ride a motorbike and need use of both my feet and wrists.

On the off chance that maybe you also ride a motorbike I’d be keen to talk motorbikes. I use my bike daily.

I use Walthamstow ring regularly. I very rarely accept hotel or living room meets. I’ve ended up outside the mats and that is a fairly large area. I doubt a double bed mattress will be enough for me and someone else. So let’s be realistic about the environment where we’re going to fight.

Some rules I like to stick to:
- no face shots, ever.
- No groin shots, ever.
- Cut your finger nails and toe nails before a fight. I’d rather think of you by looking at a bruise later on than a scratch.

I like to film/take pictures of my matches. That will ONLY happen if you also agree to it. So this is always up for discussion.

Happy to discuss cash stakes.

Trash talk. Total and complete turn off. Don’t mind goading each other a bit but this whole you’re gonna go down bitch talk won’t get you far with me.

I am always on time but if I was to be running late I will communicate this with you. That means I’m going to want to exchange phone numbers. If this is not something you are willing to do then we are not likely to meet up.

I almost never cancel a meet. But I understand things can happen and do happen. If/when I book the room at Walthamstow I’d expect a 50% deposit from you. If you wish to take care of the booking yourself then that is totally fine. I know Monica very well and she can vouch for me that I always turn up and I always pay.

I’ve also no interest in gear. It’s nice to see guys in singlets etc but I’d rather not get into what gear turns you on etc. What turns me on is the grapple itself, not the fact that you’re wearing shiny shorts or a tight singlet. If I want to look at pictures of gear I’ll go to sports direct.

Must must must see a face pic. I don’t have to fancy you to wrestle you but I need to know who I’m wrestling.

Happy wrestling everyone.